He also has a photo collage of his daughter and his ex hanging in his daughter's room. I'm seriously over my ex. Send them to your ex, use them as sad quotes which give your anger an outlet or share them with your friends on Facebook so that everyone can feel your pain. She is fucked up in the head and needs to change alot and make up for her actions but that i think still wont matter. This morning I found him looking at photos of his ex and his ex with he and his children from a recent graduation which are stored on our computer.
What reason is there to keep an ex's picture after more than a year of seperation?????? When you talk to him you have to be ready to admit that you were wrong to go into his computer. When we broke up, I pleaded with her to go to couples counseling. The collage she made sits in our family room now and my current husband has no problem with it as it is a memorial to my kid's dad. No one know about someone feeling toward others accurately. To flaunt flaws as though they are completely normal or even something to be proud of is an unhealthy way of dealing with them. I'd love to burn it all and enjoy every minute of it, but I have to think about my kids.
I dont know why, but sometimes I get that irrational fear, and I feel frustrated and even jelous about those guys and everything. I don't mind his keeping pictures of his ex, but I don't think it's right for him to carry them with him at all times - he even carries more pictures of his ex than he does of me. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. I understand it is his past, I should respect him. He says I'm jealous and should be past this in our relationship and got really mad and went to bed. This raises the insecurity level because you find that the person is not reviling something or is not being clear is because you are worse, not that good in that point. Can we be manipulated easily while we are in this state of mind? Take the time to re focus on yourself by pampering or treating yourself.
I was very confused and upset. I basically have two choices: stay and accept how things are or leave. Talking to someone who you are trying to get over is not a good idea. Ann, how can you be married for two years but only living with your husband for a couple of months? The pictures I have with my daughter I kept and gave him the pics of him and the ones of him and my daughter together. Once you feel you have written down every possible bad moment or feeling of hatred towards your ex, read it over at least twice. But i generally don't think that those girlfriends past have much to do with our relationship unless he is still in love with one of them or something.
She has to not be able to tell if her future husband sucks in bed, she must not have anything to compare. Where do you go to keep on going, just to get through the rest of time? Try to avoid mutual friends for a few weeks, avoid your favorite restaurants and coffee shops; avoid anything that reminds you of them. This spell doctor i encountered known as Doctor Odunga helped me with my wishes and i am happy to say that i am back with my ex husband and i am very happy sharing the testimony with everyone so that they too can meet this great doctor and solve their problems. But remember: you are stronger than you think, braver than you realize, and tougher than you know! When will I be able to do that and not want her back? I found that 3 wks ago he viewed videos of a sexual nature of his ex-this then led me to look further and found a hidden file on his laptop full of videos and pics of his exes that he had created when he was with me and then viewed them. It has love letters, pictures, grades, the box is just full. I found this really weird, because it means that he looked her up on facebook, and saved the pictures even though we were together at the time he created the folder.
We got back together 3 weeks ago and I thought everything's going to fine but it's not. I am sure that you can come up with more than enough dirt from your relationship to keep you pissed off for years. Now I'm guilty and don't care. They might make some catty remarks until they get to know her and then they might not say anything catty anymore. He was just removed them from one draw to another and thought that I would not find out.
Remember that she may have cheated on you and dumped you, karma will always come back around and hit her hard. To have flaws is normal. To get back with an ex is one of the most inner most feeling many people would love to experience especially as those memories with our ex always cloud our mind when someone else does some of those things our ex used to do. Can she possibly be in a parallel physical relationship with someone at her office? Instead make this about how the kids are feeling and say that you want to think of ways together to help them be more comfortable. I moved on with my life met someone else and started a relationship with them. I admit, it's such a pathetic and childish thing to do - and yet, I do it. I want to meet her and be friends but obviously that isnt going to happen.
But yeah, don't let any potential dating partners read this! The one thing I can tell you is that no matter what, breaking up is rarely ever easy. I've actually told friends that I had to make a choice and i chose my boyfriend over them. I drive past her house, try and find out what she does and where she goes. I followed after a hour. Best of Luck How Our Helpline Works For those seeking addiction treatment for themselves or a loved one, the MentalHelp. When I called him on his motive he took the pic and threw it in a drawer. I understand I am not an evil person.
They are memories and if they bring joy to his heart, the love I have for him has no desire to stand in joys way. He thinks any picture with an ex in it should be destroyed. My husband just hung up a bunch of pics of him and his ex wife up in there rooms and some with all of them some are just him and the girls. I guess admitting the problem means you're halfway there. . I still took my chances, so i looked for a way to get her back then a freind recommended me to contact prophetharry ymail. Whenever I see some photos, she puts them away she always says she did not know about that specific one.